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Montessori Approach to Address Bedtime Resistance

Laura Golnabi

The Montessori philosophy emphasizes respecting the child’s natural rhythms and fostering independence while maintaining consistency. Addressing bedtime resistance in preschool-aged children involves considering factors such as circadian rhythms, sleep habits, and overall routine management. Here’s how these aspects align with evidence-based recommendations:


1. Respecting Circadian Rhythms

Aligning bedtime with a child’s natural sleep-wake cycle is crucial. Research shows that mismatched bedtimes (e.g., too early relative to the child’s natural melatonin release) can lead to longer sleep-onset delays and bedtime resistance (LeBourgeois et al., 2013). Observe your child’s signals for tiredness, such as yawning or reduced activity, and adjust their bedtime accordingly.


2. Empowering the Child to Lead

Allowing children to have some control over their bedtime encourages cooperation. For instance, let them choose quiet activities before sleep, such as reading or mindfulness exercises. Encourage open discussions about their feelings on bedtime. This aligns with Montessori’s emphasis on child autonomy (Lillard et al., 2017).


3. Reevaluating Nap Schedules

Some preschoolers continue to nap when it may no longer be necessary, which can interfere with nighttime sleep. Research highlights that reducing or eliminating naps for children who no longer need them improves bedtime readiness and reduces resistance (Cooney et al., 2018).


4. Consistent Wake-Up Times

Waking children at the same time each day, regardless of when they fell asleep, helps regulate their internal clocks. Irregular wake times or letting children sleep in can disrupt their circadian rhythms and delay sleep onset at night. Studies emphasize the importance of a consistent schedule for improving sleep hygiene and reducing bedtime struggles (Wilson et al., 2015).


5. Supporting Self-Regulation and Independence

Modeling and teaching calming techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, helps children self-soothe and transition to sleep. Montessori education emphasizes these strategies to promote emotional regulation and independence (Hien, 2024).


6. Creating an Optimal Environment

A Montessori-inspired bedtime environment should be quiet, dimly lit, and clutter-free to signal that it’s time to rest. Research supports the role of environmental cues in reducing bedtime resistance and aligning with the child’s natural sleep cues (LeBourgeois et al., 2013).


References


Cooney, M. R., Short, M., & Gradisar, M. (2018). An open trial of bedtime fading for sleep disturbances in preschool children: A parent group education approach. Sleep Medicine, 46, 98-106.


Hien, T. T. T. (2024). Efficient management in the Montessori educational environment for preschool children. International Research Journal of Management, IT, and Social Sciences.


LeBourgeois, M., Wright, K., Lebourgeois, H. B., & Jenni, O. (2013). Dissonance between parent-selected bedtimes and young children’s circadian physiology influences nighttime settling difficulties. Mind, Brain, and Education, 7(4), 234-242.


Lillard, A., Heise, M., Richey, E. M., Tong, X., Hart, A., & Bray, P. M. (2017). Montessori preschool elevates and equalizes child outcomes: A longitudinal study. Frontiers in Psychology, 8.


Wilson, K. E., Lumeng, J., Kaciroti, N., Chen, S., LeBourgeois, M., Chervin, R., & Miller, A. L. (2015). Sleep hygiene practices and bedtime resistance in low-income preschoolers: Does temperament matter? Behavioral Sleep Medicine, 13(4), 412-423.

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